What is all this talk about natural pain management and do I need to learn more?
What is all this talk about natural pain management and do I need to learn more?
One of the most common questions I get asked is. “Why should I learn about Natural Pain Management if I plan on getting an epidural?’’
The answer is really quite simple… most birthers labor for quite some time (either at home or in the hospital) before they feel the need for pain relief. When we employ natural pain management techniques in early labor, navigating contractions becomes a little easier.
I believe there are Three Keys to Natural Pain Management:
1. Mindset
2. Breathwork
3. Movement
Let’s explore these concepts a little further.
Mindset is so important in labor. There is a definitive mind/body connection when we process pain, discomfort, anxiety, and stressors. With labor, we encourage positive mindspeak, using affirmations, trusting the body and the process of labor, and using centering/grounding techniques to remain present, calm, focused, and in tune with our body.
This can manifest in many ways:
- self-affirmations such as “I can do this”, “I am not afraid of my contractions”, “I am strong and present” “I am not alone, thousands of women around the world are laboring with me right now " or whatever resonates with you in the moment.
- expressed affirmation by partner/birth team – “You’ve got this, you are so strong” and other such positive affirmations.
- using hypnosis-based practices such as Hypnobabies, Hypnobirthing or other such meditations.
- trusting the process, surrendering to the discomfort of labor, opening up and softening into each contraction/surge/wave.
Breathwork plays into Mindset and can help maintain control, allowing for a natural flow with each wave/surge/contraction. When we experience pain, our natural tendency is to tighten up our body and increase our breathing. This is the opposite of what we need to achieve in labor. Our goal is to develop a slow, even, deep breathing pattern, pushing our breath down through the surge, through baby and out of our body, Breathing in strength, blowing out tension and fear,
Movement goes hand and hand with Mindset and Breathwork. Movement is key to progression in labor. Standing and swaying, squatting, walking, rocking on all fours, offering asymmetric movements are all tools that will help baby engage in and rotate through the pelvis. Change of position every 15-30 minutes is so important, not only for baby’s movement, but also for the birther’s comfort. Tuning into the body and responding to what position the body is seeking is key.
This triad for Natural Pain Management can certainly be used for a natural birth, but can and should be utilized in medicated birth, Induction, and/or Cesarean Birth. Mindset, Breathwork and Movement can be used whether standing, laying in bed, using hydrotherapy (shower, birthing tub, bath), sitting...in any position.
We do not have much control over what our body does when in labor. Where we gain control is how we respond to those contractions/waves/surges. Using our breath, moving with the rhythm of our labor, and remaining positive, focused, and present will allow for a smooth, fluid, and empowered birthing journey, whatever that journey becomes!
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